Kelly Wallis,  —

Kelly Wallis lives in Houston, Texas. She is a music therapist who works with the elderly population, and also serves as the organist for her church. She lives with her husband of almost 30 years and her daughter Abby. Abby was diagnosed at age 22 with Sanfilippo syndrome in 2017. Sanfilippo is also called “childhood Alzheimer’s” because it presents similarly to dementia. Abby has an attenuated form of Sanfilippo, meaning it is slower progressing. She writes alongside her other daughter, Emily, about hardships endured as a caregiver with honesty and humor.

Articles by Kelly Wallis

What if more people knew about Sanfilippo syndrome?

Rare Disease Day on Feb. 28 is an excellent opportunity to promote awareness of diseases that often receive less attention, research, and funding than more commonly known ones. My daughter Abby has a rare disease called Sanfilippo syndrome, which sometimes is called “childhood Alzheimer’s” because the symptoms…

How Anticipatory Grief Reflects My Daily Reality

Caring for a loved one with a terminal illness is difficult. Not knowing the details or the timing of their passing causes so much anxiety and fear. My daughter Abby has Sanfilippo syndrome, a rare, terminal disease. I find myself caring for her while she is here but also…

Trying to Live With Sanfilippo but Without Constant Worry

Raising children is a big responsibility. Parents experience so many emotions while rearing children — joy, sadness, frustration, gratitude, fear, and more. So many things can go wrong. So many reasons to worry. I’m not a worrisome mother; I try not to sweat the small stuff. This is partly due…

We Live in a World Full of Gray — Embrace It

We do not live in a world of absolutes, a world of only black and white, right or wrong, good or bad. Instead, there are mostly shades of grays, or different versions of the truth. Each version is based upon personal experiences, making it mostly subjective. This should give us…

The Challenges of Caring for an Adult With Sanfilippo Syndrome

Sanfilippo syndrome is a rare, genetic disease that typically presents itself in children when they are either toddlers or adolescents. Children with this disease commonly exhibit hyperactivity, cognitive decline, sleep problems, diarrhea, and declining motor skills. Unfortunately, these individuals often pass away either before or during their teenage…