Plot Twist – a Column by Valerie Tharp Byers

This was my Wednesday afternoon: I’m changing my son’s diaper while talking on the phone with one of his specialists to schedule his annual visit. I glance at the clock — his speech therapist will arrive in just 10 minutes and he still needs his snack. I finish the…

“Don’t worry, they won’t go to college in diapers!” It’s the statement so many people give to parents as they go through the often difficult adventure of potty training. In the United States, potty training is normally started between 21 and 36 months, though only 40-60% of children…

Summer — it’s a season of lots of fun, but also lots of difficulty for my family and many others like us. As I wrote last month, my 11-year-old son, Will, has Sanfilippo syndrome, which makes summer a particularly tough time for me as a caregiver. In addition to…

Y’all. I am tired. My son’s birthday was last week. Will turned 11. This was going to be a column about the bittersweet nature of birthdays when it comes to progressive, terminal diagnoses that have no treatment. About being so thankful for another year while also realizing that it brings…

Oh, the things my arms have held. I’ve carried my beloved stuffed animals and blankies, my school books and book bags, my moving boxes and furniture, and my babies. Emotionally, I’ve carried a sense of purpose, a sense of pride, a sense of responsibility. But the most significant thing I’ve…